I have a quick question. When I send PM's I can't see what I sent only what the other person has sent me, it's confusing. Is that just me? is there some way I can adjust it? Or is that just the way the forum is?
Okay, so that was three quick questions, sue me 

There's an "Inbox" and and "Outbox." There's also a checkbox for "Save my outgoing messages." If you don't check that it doesn't keep a copy. I lost a lot of messages that way.  Also instead of "Reply" I hit "Quote" so I have a copy of the message in my reply so I can remember what I was talking about.

Thanks Dave, found it.

Nice seeing you at WMS, btw... although briefly. I'm not the most outgoing person around other magicians, still learning.